I replied, rose petals and candlelight. Wow, there is a lot I need to teach you. As years went on, I now have a very clear understanding of how sex and making love are very different acts. Sex is bio-mechanical and instinctive, we all know how to do it. Love making is slow, sensual, not goal oriented which allows us to experience the metaphysical being of oneness, this type of love making is truly an art in itself. Many men I speak to and coach still have no idea what the difference is, because the majority use porn as an educational tool.
Difference between Making Love & Having Sex
Difference between Making Love & Having Sex - Embry Women's Health
Once we identify that there is a difference and we want to experience the possibility of making love, how do we start to make the change? Although making love is a completely natural expression and the sexual act is an activity that takes its place amongst all our other activities; in our society, sex has been blown up and taken out of context. If we are to change our way of being with sex it can be helpful to understand that sex can be an area that is often not clear within us and therefore it needs examination. This comes in part from the fact that very few people will have been brought up with an open, loving, informed approach to sex and making love.
10 Big Differences Between Making Love And Having Sex
It's simply part of the life cycle of the relationship. But in the early stages of the relationship, it's when the cycle happens rapidly. Sometimes, if you're with a new partner and wondering where it's going, you'll start to analyze the sex.
Helena Lorimer March 5, This article was scientifically fact-checked by Human Sexuality expert Dr. Laurie Mintz. As humans we automatically assign meaning to nearly everything… especially those who are prone to over analyzing.